As some of you know I've posted on here about issues with my wife having some surgeries, being in the hospital for and extended period of time, etc... I'm having some issues currently that I would like to query some outside opinions. How do you deal with the physical and emotional disconnection after a serious surgery and recovery period of a SO/Wife? I crave for normalcy and can't get it right now. I want my wife in her full capacity and can't have it right now and it's giving me a complex.