Long story short (for now)...so there was this wonderful woman I was dating last year. Then we became "just friends". Then we started dating again. Then I became "one of her closest friends".
Then she and I chilled for a month with no communications. It was Ramadan. She is muslim. I respected her quiet time to fast.
Okay, so she calls me frantic the other day to say "your inbox is full...I couldn't reach you!" Yeah, I was happy. See, I kind of held out hope that we would start back dating since we had grown so close. I was taking my time, decided that the relationship started off shaky because I moved too fast.
She calls me today to tell me she is married. Went to the courthouse. TODAY.
Apparently, the next time I fall in love with someone, I need to just run to the courthouse and tie the knot before someone else does, WTF?
Once again, I am lost. How do you people manage anyway?
For future reference, yes..this IS a pity party!