...unexpectedly, to "see how you were doing", and it just sort of bummed you out?
So I had a peer, cool dude...drop in on me unexpectedly and it sort of turned into this weird macho display I think. Maybe it's just my imagination. Not sure. But I have a hard time reading people and I just sort of got the impression that that's what it was all about. Either a self serving "I'll feel better knowing you're not dead" sort of thing on his part, or a strange competition of "who's doing better these days? I AM!" sort of vibe...very weird. Anyway I am sort of weirded out by the whole thing and think that maybe I should be feeling grateful that people would want to check in on me, no? I feel guilty for not being more grateful. Then again, my dog bit him as he came across the doorway, and my dog is a good judge of vibe/character so...I'm not sure. I do feel bad that he got bit. I know that much. But my dog doesn't just bite people for no reason.