So I recently find out one of my buddies will be getting married, soon after my marriage starts.
My best man is starting to want to go to Vegas.
Here's my problem/issue with that:
1) You have to be stupid to "waste" money in an economy like we're in right now
2) A month after marriage, to go to Vegas to do God knows what, probably isn't the best thing for a soon to be newly wedded couple - kinda goes back to the wasting money thing also (my wedding is in September, buddies is in October)
3) Not only will the 3 of us need to decide to go, but that may leave out other people in the wedding party, especially one of our closest friends that is mormon.
4) I've never wanted to go to Vegas in the first place.
Two things that I've gotten over since high school and college - drinking too much, and strip clubs
For some reason, I've grown out of it
So what would you do in this situation? These guys are my closest friends I've ever had, but my lifestyle has changed since graduation/finding a fiance/healthy living/wanting to be more responsible.