My dad married my step mom 6 years ago after 6 years of living together. In that time my step mom has worked a full year twice, including this year. I have made more money in my life than her, at 23.
My step mom is the type of person that has her kids do everything for her, like get her cigarettes or her purse out of her car. She is a bit of a pig, my fathers room was spotless throughout my childhood and now it is a disaster as is much of the house.
This is primarily due to her three daughters whom don't seem to care about the status of the house and contribute greatly to its mess. My dad has paid for more than half their lives since they have lived here, this includes food, insurance, etc. Keep in mind, step mom has pretty much never worked.
I am living at home while i pay off some bills and get a bit of savings ready before i move into my own place (likely an apartment).
I just got home from work. Step mom was laying in bed watching TV, as she does 75% of the time that she's home. I'm in the door no more than 2 seconds when she calls me upstairs and says
"Chinese...you fly, i buy?"
Now here's the thing. Doing a favor for someone every now and then is fine...but with this women it is an every day occurrence and most of the time they are things solely for her...things she could do herself, like getting a package out of the mailbox that she knew was there. I'm talking 12 years of this stuff.
I live at home at 23...this is because i had to pay my own way through school and need a moment to catch up from that.
I don't want Chinese food. If i go pick it up, i'll likely just make some white rice, veggies and have some chicken/tuna.
Should i go get the Chinese?
I'm gonna go shower real quick...majority rules.