So last weekend I tied the knot with my fiance/now wife.
Back in July, her dad passed away with cancer.
Typically she's an optimistic type of person, fun loving, and just great to be around.
After he passed away, she's been totally different, and I'm worried about her, and our relationship.
She's been finding my faults more and more lately, and complaining about things I do and don't do (after being together since 2003). She's a lot more pessimistic (like me), and just doesn't seem herself (like the Alicia I knew before this happened). At least once every 3 days, she gets hysterical, saying "it's not fair", and starts balling tears. She's been getting migraines about once a week (went to the Dr about that, they just gave her some pills and said to call if they don't help, they couldn't pin point why she's getting them). I feel horrible, and don't know what to say, but yet I want her to stop thinking about him. It's starting to affect our relationship (now marriage), and I think it's hurting her health. I wish it would have never happened, especially right before our wedding.
Has anybody been through something like this before? Will it ever change, or will it be like this for the rest of our lives?