Me and wife have most of the stuff moved already to our new houses. I'm totally ready, but she was not. Her work schedule does not let her take/pickup the kids at school. So me and my sister agreed to stay a few days more (her days) so we could transport the kids.
Tomorrow is the last of HER days when she still needs help. Cool, I'm working all frigging night, 12.5h shift, 2h roundtrip commute, AND I'll take the kids to school, sleep a little, pick them up and come back to work another night shift.
But now she calls and say that tomorrow at 12 (right in the middle of my sleep) she is gonna be at the old house with some new male friend of hers, to pick the bed.... the bed I'm using to sleep.
We agreed she was going to do that next Monday, where I'm off and I have the kids. IMHO this is a last attempt at provocation. Here's how I'm gonna deal with it.
1) I'm renting a truck early in the morning and I'm loading whatever is left of MY stuff in one go. And I was going to leave almost everything, but nah... I'll stick to the division list that was drafted at the court.
By noon I'll be out... and I hope not to see the new friend face to face because being sleep deprived I'm gonna be very very cranky and could end up saying stuff like:
"Hi there, new man toy... let me know when you get her pregnant so I can transfer you my sucker-paying-alimony club membership card".
....what a b1ch ... sending her new boyfriend to wake up my sleep in the middle of my work week.
Oh, and in the after noon I'm gonna call her... "hey honey, I could not get enough sleep so is not safe for me to drive. I got permission from the office to work from home but... you gonna have to get somebody (your new boyfriend maybe) to pick up the kids.... see ya"
Well the last one maybe not... I'm overprotective with the baby girl... but that how I feel right now and this cup of coffee is not helping.