...when and how you stopped believing in the big guy in the red suit? I think my parents told me sometime when I was in Grade school.
I don't remember being terribly shocked. It was getting harder to reconcile the Santa myth with logic.
My somewhat sheltered daughter is still a believer at 11 and I've been debating whether its time to break the news.
I think in some ways she has probably figured it out, but has decided it's a good conspiracy to go along with.