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    Questionable content on a 3yo girl web page - What to do?

    My children have facebook pages so they could play the farm game thing. I'm OK with that as long as no personal info in there (address, phones, etc). The pages were created by my ex and are linked to her own page. Now that she is enjoining being single she posted on her page a sexually charged interview called "How are you in bed?". The interview is in spanish and have several questionable questions that IMHO should not be part of a 3yo girl's web page.

    I question if my girl should have a web page at all.. but having that content in it .... I'm very against. I've asked my ex to remove that material from the girl's page but she refused saying "that's nothing".

    So, here's a screenshot of the oage in question. I'm not gonna keep it for long... so please write your suggestions about what should I do about this.
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    I'm confused. Is this the facebook page for your daughter or for you ex?

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    Geez, louise. I don't speak Spanish, but the picture alone of the bottom bikini shot is enough to make me not want to have those sort of posts on my kid's page. I think it is very inappropriate to have sexual material on a child's web page.
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    I think it's his daughter's "Wall."

    The mom (ex) is doing these application things and then "share/tell your friends" and since the daughter is a "Friend" they are showing up on her wall.

    Ruben, I agree with you and feel this is very disgusting that your daughter has a Facebook page, especially with a photo, etc. You don't need ANY info to play FarmVille. Heck, you can play on the Farmville.com website!

    Having Facebook to play FarmVille, ok. Having info and a photo. Nope. And Your ex is letting these things show up on your daughter's wall. Holy Crap!

    Do whatever you can to have it removed immediately.

    (And remove or at least edit the photo in your post--it contains full names, etc, which aren't exactly as common as "Jenny Anderson" or something.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by SonataInFSharp View Post
    I think it's his daughter's "Wall."

    The mom (ex) is doing these application things and then "share/tell your friends" and since the daughter is a "Friend" they are showing up on her wall.

    Ruben, I agree with you and feel this is very disgusting that your daughter has a Facebook page, especially with a photo, etc. You don't need ANY info to play FarmVille. Heck, you can play on the Farmville.com website!

    Having Facebook to play FarmVille, ok. Having info and a photo. Nope. And Your ex is letting these things show up on your daughter's wall. Holy Crap!

    Do whatever you can to have it removed immediately.

    (And remove or at least edit the photo in your post--it contains full names, etc, which aren't exactly as common as "Jenny Anderson" or something.)
    Got it.

    Yeah to all of this. It needs to be taken down. Contact Facebook if you need to.

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    You can disable the display of news feed updates (or whatever they call it now), as well as disable the entire wall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UnsafeAlpine View Post
    Got it.

    Yeah to all of this. It needs to be taken down. Contact Facebook if you need to.
    UA is right... contact FB.

    I am not a fan of social networking. People just don't get it. Right now I am fighting with my sister as on her page she has posted photos of her young adult kids - drunk and partying. Perhaps I overreact to these things but somehow FB and other networks have given people the right and freedom to be fools.

    Ruben protect your child any way you can. You as a man know how some other men would view this content. It's wrong, you know it, act on it.
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    Don't you have to be a certain age to have a facebook?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jccaclimber View Post
    You can disable the display of news feed updates (or whatever they call it now), as well as disable the entire wall.
    Yes, you need to get into the account settings and change the types of things that get displayed on the wall.

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    block the ex.
    problem solved.

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    I agree with everyone else - it needs to be taken down. Putting children's photos and adult sexual content on the same page is not a good thing.

    If your ex refuses to do it you should contact the lawyer who handled your custody issues.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CbadRider View Post
    If your ex refuses to do it you should contact the lawyer who handled your custody issues.
    this. Take down the page, or at absolute minimum: change the name, remove all pictures, remove all friends, set to private, and anything else you can think of to lock it down. (I don't use FB so I'm not sure what else can be done)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Siu Blue Wind View Post
    Don't you have to be a certain age to have a facebook?
    13, I think. But as you can see, Ruben's daughter is cleary 20 years old. Her birthday is even listed under her photo. Geez!

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    First of all... I always thought those games were imature... now that I KNOW a 3yr is playing them... sheesh.

    Quote Originally Posted by jccaclimber View Post
    You can disable the display of news feed updates (or whatever they call it now), as well as disable the entire wall.
    There are a ton of security settings.... check them out. I've mainly looked into limited what I send out to others, not what others post to my stuff (e.g., I blocked my boss from seeing my wall or getting updates from me.)
    I THINK you can set it to not get updates from certain people... then the ex would have to specifically post it to your daughters page.


    Oh... and I THINK you can click an "X" off to the right to delete that post from the wall. It won't stop things from the future, but it would allow you to screen your daughter's facebook before you let her loose to farmville away.


    As for a certain age to have a facebook... I dunno.... but if a dog or cat can have a facebook, a little girl can.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CbadRider View Post
    I agree with everyone else - it needs to be taken down. Putting children's photos and adult sexual content on the same page is not a good thing.

    If your ex refuses to do it you should contact the lawyer who handled your custody issues.
    what she said.
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    I also agree, have it taken down. This places your daughther at high risk. FB has been penetrated many times and IP address lists associated with members names have been compromised on a number of occasions, and frankly, for example, if I copped your IP address, it wouldn't be much longer I'd have your street address, name and other information, depending on how paranoid you are about personal data on the web.
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    Heck I just deleted my facebook since I never use it.
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    From the facebook help page.

    "What is the minimum age required to sign up for Facebook?
    In order to be eligible to sign up for Facebook, users must be thirteen (13) years of age or older."

    ...

    When a person signs up for an account they enter a birthdate. Since whoever creates the account enters this date, they are committing fraud by knowingly adding an account for anyone under 13. The account should be removed.

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    Change the password and then delete it. So that way nobody else can get into it.
    Quote Originally Posted by Buddha
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    I think that Ruben's ex set up the account and thus Ruben doesn't have the password, thus why he can't just change things or get rid of it himself...

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    Whelp...there goes MY idea.
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    Firebomb the bi*ch.

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    Thanks for the replies Foo. I was afraid of being an over-reacting Dad. I talk to the ex again today and she still refuses. I'm not sure how will I proceed (what agency) but I WILL take that page down.

    I'm also removing the temporary screenshoot I took for this post... it is disgusting.

    again, thx

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    Quote Originally Posted by RubenX View Post
    Thanks for the replies Foo. I was afraid of being an over-reacting Dad. I talk to the ex again today and she still refuses. I'm not sure how will I proceed (what agency) but I WILL take that page down.

    I'm also removing the temporary screenshoot I took for this post... it is disgusting.

    again, thx
    As mentioned take the screen shot to a lawyer and if needed the judge can deal with the situation.
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    If all you say about your now ex is true I wouldn't be wasting my time posting here on the forums, I'd be reporting the ex to DHS everytime some **** like this happens (which according to you is often) so I could get custody of them.
    You see, their morals, their code...it's a bad joke, dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to be. I'll show you. When the chips are down, these...These "civilized" people...they'll eat each other. See, I'm not a monster. I'm just ahead of the curve

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