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    is homestay a safe way to stay in USA?

    Most probably, I will come to US soon and continue my education over there. As I cannot handle washing machine and the stench from the toilet, I prefer homestay as a way to live in the US. But americans, have u ever heard any tragedies about homestay? For example, being desexed suddenly, axx hole being raped, forced to intercourse with the grannies?
    If those words disturb you, I apologize.

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    I dunno - is it any more dangerous than couch surfing in iceland, or staying in a hostel with 50 strange guys in Germany?

    Honestly, if I was opening up my home to people via websites like couchsurfing.net or homestay, I'd be more concerned that they'd drug me, rob me blind, then burn down my house than the other way around.
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    I think the biggest problem will be finding a home that you are compatible with in terms of lifestyle and religion.
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    you DO realize that a homestay is NOT an adoption? Master the washing machine, QW, and find an apartment - with or without roommates.
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    If the host is named Hannibal Lecter or Freddie Kreuger or John Wayne Gacy.....maybe not.
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    You want to share a house with someone because you can't stand washing machines and toilets? I think **** is the least of your worries.
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    Quote Originally Posted by qwerasdfcr View Post
    For example, being desexed suddenly
    Actually, being desexed suddenly is highly preferable to having it done slowly.

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    forced to intercourse with the grannies?
    Don't knock it if you haven't tried it.

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    As I cannot handle...the stench from the toilet
    Learn to flush.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brontide View Post
    I think the biggest problem will be finding a home that you are compatible with in terms of lifestyle and religion.
    For the religion aspect, christian will be placed on my priority list. (less opportunity for encountering the tragedies)
    For the lifestyle aspect, it doesn't a big matter for me, as I have my own daily routine, and won't have not much time left to have fun with them. Of course, if there is a beautiful sister under 16, it would be an exceptional case.

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    i saw an american documentary about serial killers. Apparenty at any one time there are 8 serial killers active. So, do you feel lucky?
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    Quote Originally Posted by coasting View Post
    i saw an american documentary about serial killers. Apparenty at any one time there are 8 serial killers active. So, do you feel lucky?



    well, do ya punk?
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    OP Do you remember in your other thread how I asked if you were sponsored and how you were planning your stay? There was a reason.

    I have had student renters at my house near the University for 7 years now. Each year I have a new set of renters and we meet and discuss compatibility and renter agreements. As long as the house rules and the house mates are respected, there should be no problem. The only incident where I had to ask someone to leave is when he started to bring his over night guest to stay at the house for several weeks and it was unfair to the tenants to pay that person's share of utilities.

    You should be relatively safe as long as communication is open not only with the house mates but with your family as well. Using your instincts and common sense are vital also.
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    siu the switch knife homestay host...

    that's one of the 8. 7 more to go.
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    what about living in a dorm?

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    Quote Originally Posted by coasting View Post
    siu the switch knife homestay host...

    that's one of the 8. 7 more to go.
    Do you think she keeps the ears, or does she sell them to jsharr?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snicklefritz View Post
    what about living in a dorm?
    Yeah, this.

    Just about every college/university around here that I know of requires that entering Freshmen stay on campus- either dorms or student apartments (owned/managed by the school). I have a niece who graduated from a local high school and attended the U of Tulsa. She was required to stay on campus at first, even though her parents house was less than 20 miles away. Something about making the transition easier...

    But if the OP is looking at Grad School, well then the housing requirement doesn't apply.
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    College dorms, or rent an apartment. You don't plan to do the whole semester at a homestay, do you?
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    Hey, OP, you wouldn't happen to be related a female BF'er named Blue Banana Seat by any chance?
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    Quote Originally Posted by qwerasdfcr View Post
    Most probably, I will come to US soon and continue my education over there. As I cannot handle washing machine and the stench from the toilet, I prefer homestay as a way to live in the US. But americans, have u ever heard any tragedies about homestay? For example, being desexed suddenly, axx hole being raped, forced to intercourse with the grannies?
    If those words disturb you, I apologize.
    If you can't handle the washing machine, you're going to have a problem finding someone to stay with because once your clothes start smelling like the stench of the toilet you so despise, they'll ask you to leave. And by ask, I mean put all your stinky stuff outside and change the locks so you can't get back in. Learn how to wash your own stuff and it'll go a long way to helping you find people to live with. As for being "desexed suddenly", I'm assuming you mean haivng your johnson cut off suddenly or something like that. Maybe you've heard these stories from others who can't stand the washing machine and after repeated requests to wash the toilet-like stench out of your clothes (and repeated refusals because you can't handle the simple device called a washing machine), the hosts lost their minds and did the "desexing". If you can't fend off the grannies from forcing you to have intercourse, you have yet another whole set of problems... and if so, you might want to consider that if a granny can force you into intercourse, it may be the only female intercourse you'll wind up having; I don't know too many young women who are interested in such a wimp of a boy.

    Quote Originally Posted by qwerasdfcr View Post
    For the religion aspect, christian will be placed on my priority list. (less opportunity for encountering the tragedies)
    For the lifestyle aspect, it doesn't a big matter for me, as I have my own daily routine, and won't have not much time left to have fun with them. Of course, if there is a beautiful sister under 16, it would be an exceptional case.
    And this tells me that it's not the family that you have to worry about , but rather the pedophile the family may be bringing into their home.
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    Quote Originally Posted by qwerasdfcr View Post
    Most probably, I will come to US soon and continue my education over there. As I cannot handle washing machine and the stench from the toilet, I prefer homestay as a way to live in the US. But americans, have u ever heard any tragedies about homestay? For example, being desexed suddenly, axx hole being raped, forced to intercourse with the grannies?
    If those words disturb you, I apologize.
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    Why don't you stay at the Y.M.C.A.? I hear they have everything that you need to enjoy, and
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