Always trust your instincts. Always.
It's amazing how you can just know something with out actually knowing it.
I've been dating this girl for almost a year and it's been great, every weekend we would spent camping, skiing, biking... We just had so much ion common it was great. She started acting weird around the holidays and told me she wanted to see other people. At 42 This is the first time in her life she's been really on her own. She was married at 19 to her first husband, then met her second husband right after her 1st divorce. She been divorced from him for a couple of years. She had just found out her ex husband was moving in with his girl friend. It really kind of effected her, and she wanted to make sure I knew she wasn't ready for that kind of commitment. I told her I wasn't either.
Anyway, I told her I wasn't cool with seeing other people and backed off and let her decide what she wanted. Well she wanted to keep seeing me and things were back to normal. It was great again until a couple of weeks ago. I just sensed something was different. I asked her what was up, if there was someone else and she just told me no, she just had a lot of stress at work and other things.
I knew something was up, I just knew it. I was over her house yesterday and I sensed something was just strange. I was in her bathroom and I don't know why, but I decided to look in her little trash can and sure enough I found a condom... She finally came clean about things. It sucks. :(
Finding the condom just confirmed that my instincts were right on the money.