Singed the papers for the big "D" yesterday! Getting off relatively cheap in a community property state and emotionally un-scarred. We got past the finger pointing and nasty stuff and decided to just be adults and do our own settlements without lawyers. Still on track to retire on time and pay off house before then.
And as a bonus, during the whole process, ran into old friend that I hadn't seen in a couple of years who last I knew was engaged to someone. Filled each other in on the details of our lives, went out once and have been stuck like glue to each other ever since!
No rebound relationship issues for those who are thinking it. . The big "D" was a long time coming so I went way past all the stereo typical post break up crap.
Happy Happy Joy Joy!. 2011 will end up not sucking near as bad as the year started out!