if i tell my GF i'm losing my attraction to her because she's gaining weight? she's like my best friend now instead of the sexual queen she was when we first started dating. she works about 60-70 hours a week, so i can't really tell her to 'hit the gym', and i cannot get her to ride a bike at all with me. we did a little jogging last weekend, but i don't really enjoying doing that either. i still love her, of course, but i'm having trouble 'getting it up' so to speak so we need to resolve this somehow soon. i feel like such a shumck since she's been so good to me.