This isn't an easy question to ask, but...necessary.
For older women, could you please recommend a good bike seat? Right now, I'm using a Trek that clearly wasn't made for a woman's anatomy and while the gel is comfortable, the front seems designed to squeeze an extremely delicate item. Obviously, this is a man's seat.
I'm in the beginning stages of training (in a year's time) for a cross-country trip and the ups and downs of the local roads mean that I'm moving quite a bit and I think this particular spot is getting "pinched". To make it worse, I'm overweight, so I'm sure the less-than-taut legs aren't helping things any while I work out.
Many red-faced thanks in advanced.