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Velo Dog 02-11-11 11:38 PM

OK, sorry, call me a grump, but I just can't wave at any more cyclists.
 
I did the same 25-mile round-trip commute by bike 75 or so times a year between 1979 and 2007, when I retired. When I started, I might ride all week without seeing another cyclist; On the rare occasions I did, it would be one guy, usually with a beard. We'd wave like fools, talk to each other, carry on like reunited brothers.
When Greg Lemond started winning Tours, more riders showed up. He grew up here, got some early sponsorshop from the local shops, and he was popular. Eventually I saw maybe half a dozen riders a week, or three in a group on Saturday.
Things slacked off for awhile, but then Lance came along. Cycling surged, and surged again when the Baby Boomer joggers gave up running to save their knees. I nodded grimly and acknowledged everybody.
Last Sunday we had a pretty nice day, and I rode most of the old commute route. I saw FIFTY-SEVEN riders, an average of about 2.3 a mile.
I wish everybody well. Enjoy your ride. But I'm not waving anymore.

twobadfish 02-11-11 11:41 PM

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Mr. Beanz 02-12-11 12:19 AM

I don't mind riders that don't say hi. But I do mind the rides that don't respond when you say hi, smile, wave, but then want to suck your wheel when you pass them. Just don't be one of those.:D

BengeBoy 02-12-11 12:21 AM

I see similar numbers of riders on many of my rides in the summer; if I waved at them all I'd break my arm.

In the winter, when it's rainy and cold, and only a few of us are out, I try to wave. Unless my hands are frozen to the handlebars.

BarracksSi 02-12-11 12:41 AM

OP, welcome to my world :D Maybe I'll try counting how many other cyclists I see when I go for a decent distance.

Northwestrider 02-12-11 02:55 AM

It's just like when I was young and learning how to drive on back country roads, everyone would wave as there were few of us on the road. Now while driving those same roads few if any will wave. Its a function of numbers it seems.

Dan Burkhart 02-12-11 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Velo Dog (Post 12213636)
I did the same 25-mile round-trip commute by bike 75 or so times a year between 1979 and 2007, when I retired. When I started, I might ride all week without seeing another cyclist; On the rare occasions I did, it would be one guy, usually with a beard. We'd wave like fools, talk to each other, carry on like reunited brothers.
When Greg Lemond started winning Tours, more riders showed up. He grew up here, got some early sponsorshop from the local shops, and he was popular. Eventually I saw maybe half a dozen riders a week, or three in a group on Saturday.
Things slacked off for awhile, but then Lance came along. Cycling surged, and surged again when the Baby Boomer joggers gave up running to save their knees. I nodded grimly and acknowledged everybody.
Last Sunday we had a pretty nice day, and I rode most of the old commute route. I saw FIFTY-SEVEN riders, an average of about 2.3 a mile.
I wish everybody well. Enjoy your ride. But I'm not waving anymore.

Is it less trouble to count than to wave? Not sayin' I blame ya.

2manybikes 02-12-11 10:22 AM

Waving or not waving means nothing.

StanSeven 02-12-11 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Dan Burkhart (Post 12214398)
Is it less trouble to count than to wave? Not sayin' I blame ya.

Quote:

I saw FIFTY-SEVEN riders, an average of about 2.3 a mile.
Yep. Grumpy with too much time on your hands - especially the distance calculation aprt

DX-MAN 02-12-11 04:36 PM

Never encountered that problem; most times, I get ignored, anyway, so I rarely acknowledge another rider unless he/she does first....

Your post left me wondering, though -- are you pedaling so hard that a series of little waves of the hand is too much effort? DAAAMMMMNN...!

electrik 02-12-11 04:38 PM

If they wave at you and you don't wave back it probably says something. We don't need to call you anything! Haha.

BarracksSi 02-12-11 06:37 PM

Honestly, I think waving is silly.

It's not like we're all overcoming some life-threatening disease or meeting up for the big game. Neither does anyone wave to every walker, driver, or fellow riders on the bus or train. Is the act of waving to other cyclists the same kind of approval-seeking that makes people say, "Hey mom, look at me!"?

I'm not antisocial, mind you. I'll chat about our bikes or the weather or whatever as we're tooling along. As an example, I got put into contact with a sports physiology clinic because of talking with a stranger during a ride. I'll often try a head nod or just a lift of the finger, or just a "'Mornin'" while we're waiting at a light.

But, really, most of the time, we're just trying to go somewhere. Bikes become plain ol' transportation devices after a while.

Velo Dog 02-13-11 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Northwestrider (Post 12213871)
It's just like when I was young and learning how to drive on back country roads, everyone would wave as there were few of us on the road. Now while driving those same roads few if any will wave. Its a function of numbers it seems.

I hadn't thought of that...when I got out of the Army in 1968, I bought an MGB, then traded up to a Fiat 124. Foreign cars were pretty rare in those days, and everybody waved. Then there got to be a kind of hierarchy, where, say, Triumph and MG drivers could wave to each other, and Porsche drivers could wave to Jaguars, but an Austin Healey guy wasn't required to acknowledge a Volkswagen and nobody waved at Renaults.
Help me out here: When I'm on my old beater Trek, is the waving order different than when I'm on my Atlantis?

Chris L 02-13-11 02:35 AM

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Originally Posted by BarracksSi (Post 12216208)
Honestly, I think waving is silly.

It's not like we're all overcoming some life-threatening disease or meeting up for the big game. Neither does anyone wave to every walker, driver, or fellow riders on the bus or train. Is the act of waving to other cyclists the same kind of approval-seeking that makes people say, "Hey mom, look at me!"?

I'm not antisocial, mind you. I'll chat about our bikes or the weather or whatever as we're tooling along. As an example, I got put into contact with a sports physiology clinic because of talking with a stranger during a ride. I'll often try a head nod or just a lift of the finger, or just a "'Mornin'" while we're waiting at a light.

But, really, most of the time, we're just trying to go somewhere. Bikes become plain ol' transportation devices after a while.

This is about the first sensible post in the thread.

If you want to wave, go ahead and wave, but if you're doing it expecting a reaction, then you have other issues that you need to resolve before you worry about someone else waving back to you. Get over it.

JimF22003 02-14-11 07:24 AM

This is the only time I find waving annoying: when I'm going the opposite direction from a largish group ride that is spread out over 5 or 10 miles, and they're riding alone or in small groups: they always look surprised to see me and I get a lot of happy waves. I do the 2-finger thing out of courtesy, but it gets pretty annoying by the time I work my way back to the stragglers... and for some reason the stragglers seem to be the most enthusiastic wavers :)

Bianchigirll 02-14-11 08:56 AM

I feel bad about it, but I quit waving too. most of the riders I see are either too scared to let go of the brifters on their super stiff carbon fiber steeds or are too busy training for the world championships and never wave back.

Dan Burkhart 02-14-11 09:01 AM

[QUOTE=JimF22003;12222139]This is the only time I find waving annoying: when I'm going the opposite direction from a largish group ride that is spread out over 5 or 10 miles, and they're riding alone or in small groups: they always look surprised to see me and I get a lot of happy waves. I do the 2-finger thing out of courtesy, but it gets pretty annoying by the time I work my way back to the stragglers... and for some reason the stragglers seem to be the most enthusiastic wavers :)[/QUOTE]

Of course. That's because we're just out for the joy of the ride, not some foolish competition.:p

BlazingPedals 02-14-11 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Dan Burkhart (Post 12222565)
Of course. That's because we're just out for the joy of the ride, not some foolish competition.:p

Ooh, do I detect a bit of "if you're going faster than me you must be a racer-boy" attitude?


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