I share your sentiment, so this may not be too helpful. I see from your intro post (btw, welcome!) that you are riding a Norco XFR 3 -- nice looking bike!! Unfortunately those are not sold in my region so I can't comment on the stock saddle. However, a WSD saddle (women specific design) may help. If your purchase was from your LBS recently, perhaps they'd be willing to let you try out a WSD saddle for a day? Also, how long do you ride at a time, and how long have you been riding? If it's been less than a few weeks, perhaps you're still adjusting.
One other thing to consider: I see the stock saddle is not a fat cushy one, which is good, but how much "flex" is there in the seat? Maybe it's just a personal preference but I find I like saddles that have a decent amt of flex.
Good luck! I will be interested in reading what others suggest!
Last edited by Mysterious Lady; 08-02-11 at 12:04 PM.
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