Tandempair here. (that's Dear Husband ..DH.. and me.) DH is blind so we bike on a tandem, which is made to have the larger person in front, but of course that doesn't work for us. I captain, and he stokes. We are looking for other options. We are leisurely weekend riders, but I think we would ride more if I were more comfortable when I rode and if I felt I was in better control of the bike. This forum looks like it has many experienced riders, we hope to learn from your expertise. Thanks.