I've had several since 1999 but have settled on my beloved 2001 Litespeed Tuscany and my latest, a 2015 Cannondale SuperSix EVO carbon
Sorry to hear you're leaving. Most everyone here tries to be helpful, offer advice and encouragement, share knowledge, etc. Don't judge our 180,000+ members by the replies of a few. We try our best to keep them under control.
My bikes: 2001 Litespeed Tuscany---2015 Cannondale SuperSix EVO carbon
2013 Scott CR1 Pro carbon, 2013 Brompton S6L-X titanium, 2013 Citizen Tokyo steel
A few weeks is not enough time to get a real feel of how things are in BF.
I find that most people here are friendly and helpful. Some are trying to be
smarty pants with their replies at times(just joking around) and maybe you're
confusing that with rudeness.
It looks like you've been in some volatile threads. Some topics just inspire heated debate. There is also a certain culture to message boards that takes some getting used to. You should hang around. There are definitely friendly helpful folks here.