First off, I have a career that works me 40+ hours a week, I'm married and have a 3 month old daughter. With that said, I read all the time on here where you guys are riding like 2 times a week. I'm lucky to go once a month (on actual trails). I'll ride my bike on the streets about 2 times a week, but it's obviously not the same thing. I'm a 205 lbs guy...not in shape at all...and staying in shape to ride a trail is hard for me to do between my job and watching my daughter when my wife goes to her job. I guess my question(s) are (1) is anyone else out here like I am? and (2) what can I do to get in shape so that when I do get a chance to go on trails I don't get winded so quick? Thanks for your help guys!