What to do if she won't ride. Seek Female with similar riding interests
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I been riding my entire life, been married for 35 years. My wife occasionally rides with me to a resteraunt or local festival. I dont try to get her to ride like me. I prefer riding alone, but if I had to have someone to ride with why would it have to be a female? Why do you have to have a female? Give me a break. You couldnt be that stupid.
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Anyway, the reason I felt compelled to post is that I just happened across this thread and my first thought from the subject line was that you were trying to find a female with similar riding interests *for your wife* to ride with. Actually, you should think about that possibility too. I know two women runners that run almost exclusively as a team...if one of them can't run, the other one will often do a shorter run at the Y or one of them will call me (I also go with both on longer runs during marathon training season). We all run at the same pace, so it works well. Anyway, I think the social angle is a lot more important to women. Most women get plenty of socializing with their own husbands, and are less intimidated by a friend who performs at a similar level. Might be a good way to get her into the sport.
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Riding with other people should not be an issue, specifically looking for a member of the opposite sex to ride with . . . well . . .
How would you feel about your wife specifically seeking out a male friend to "play cards with" while you were out riding?
How would you feel about your wife specifically seeking out a male friend to "play cards with" while you were out riding?