Okay,
here's the final route slip.
Distance: 103.43 miles
Elevation Gain: 6335 ft
Tried to incorporate everyone's suggestions. I've also tried to take us by a few RR stations along the way so if anyone is not having a good day, they can bail out early.
Thanks to:
merider1: wouldn't have done it without her
Scootcore: thanks for the encouragement
thomson: directed me through Ojai
Big John: getting me through Simi, Moorpark, and Santa Paula
NRRider: Getting me home to Santa Barbara!