Anyone here from, or used to be from, or know anything about El Cajon, CA?? Or San Diego? I'm graduating college soon and an ex-coworker told me he could probably get me a good job there. I live in Philly now and love it. My plan is to move to NYC but this job is also tempting. I'd probably be making pretty decent dollar bills but is cost of living rediculous? Worse than NYC? I don't think I can survive in a non-big city atmosphere so can I live in San Diego and commute to El Cajon? Do I need a car for this? Is there a good bike/music/bar scene?