I'm finding less and less of interest here in the Socal BF. It seem that many of the threads are very personal conversations that only a couple of people know anything about. Now don't get me wrong, I love that we can talk about anything here, BUT just like having a private conversation or private joke in the middle of a group of friends, by leaving them out, you alienate them. I guess everyone wants to be a part of a clic and to appear cool (kind of like high school huh?), but this is a public forum, so may I suggest something???
The next time you start a thread that is directed at one or two people, maybe you could let all the others in on the joke or some history of subject being discussed, that way everyone can join in on the fun.