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    First verbal altercation at a stoplight while riding in traffic.

    Hey. So I bought a bike not too (I got a cruiser on the 12th, but I exchanged it for a Trek 7.2 FX on Tuesday) long ago and I read some instructional material on how to safely ride in traffic and I decided to ride on the road with the cars on an errand to the bank earlier today. Everything was fine. I realized that I'm only really in danger when switching lanes, or going through intersections or making left turns and that his danger can be minimized by intelligent positioning and forethought. I've yet to, but I intend to take TS101.

    So everything was peachy until a passenger riding in a car ordered me onto the sidewalk. Ignored him and he pulled off into a side street and insulted me and I just kept riding, so he passed me but I caught up to him at the light. He was in the left turn lane and I was in the through lane. Here is my imperfect transcript of the conversation:

    Him: What the **** are you doing on the road, get on the sidewalk.

    Me: Florida law says bicycles are permitted on the road.

    Him: I don't care what the law says, you're in the middle of the road. If I hit you with this car, I could go to jail. Get out of the way.

    Me: Are you a police officer?

    Him: ******, I'm the one with a *** that could shoot you dead.

    I did not move into the sidewalk, I just broke eye contact and looked at the light while putting my foot on the pedal while keeping him in my peripheral vision and preparing to take off at a sprint in the event that a *** were produced.

    When the light changed at the urging of the driver, the passenger made a halfhearted apology. The driver never spoke the entire time and he just seemed to have this sort of bemused smile on his face as if he were amused by his passenger's rage. I told him to have a nice day and took off on my way as they turned left.

    This is the sort of thing that makes me want to reconsider the whole biking in traffic thing. I'm not that scared of being in an accidental collision because I understand the flow of traffic and I'm just adapting smart driving from my car to my bicycle, but I fear that someone might intentionally hit me. When he passed me, he could have easily rammed me from behind and I would be toast.

    People in Miami Florida are just mean.

    What are your thoughts? Are there any established strategies for dealing with this kind of thing?

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    Ignore and keep riding. Its all hot air most of the time. If you ignore the rant they will go away.

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    I think this sort of behavior is pretty unusual. I sure hope it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by krobinson103 View Post
    Ignore and keep riding. Its all hot air most of the time. If you ignore the rant they will go away.
    I agree. Too many nuts out there that it's just not worth the risk to engage them.

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    Engagement = Enragement

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    I have found that the best thing I can do to keep my serenity in traffic is to maintain an attitude that I am a guest on everyone else’s road. That means doing everything I can to prevent drivers from becoming irritated with me in the first place, and being apologetic if I ever inadvertently do something that offends them. Something like “Sorry to have upset you. I’m doing my best to keep out of the way of traffic” usually works to de-escalate the situation. I have even moved to the sidewalk for a short time when one motorist asked me to (that guy had flashing lights on the top of his car, and I’m positive he had a ***). The worst thing you can do is argue with people in cars, or carry an attitude that you have some “right” to be there. Just move over and let them go by. They’ll be long gone soon enough. Cars are way faster than bikes.

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    When a cager is talking trash, it's a pretty good sign that's all they intend to do. Just smile, wave, and say "Si, si, gracias" until they give up.
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    Just look at them, smile, and wave... I might even say "hello" and comment on the weather. They are just trying to start an argument, and as Mark Twain said, "Never argue with stupid people." "They will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."

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    Quote Originally Posted by jwarner View Post
    Just look at them, smile, and wave... I might even say "hello" and comment on the weather. They are just trying to start an argument, and as Mark Twain said, "Never argue with stupid people." "They will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."
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    Report him to the police, for threatening you with a ***.................. MHO

    That's a big mistake on his part/

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    When you ride a lot, I ride about 120 miles a week, you have confrontations and close calls, it goes with the territory. If you have fear of either one of those things, you should probably do a different kind of bike riding.
    Mountain biking and biking on trails seems like fun, though I like riding the roads. I have absolutley no fear biking the road, doesnt seem like fun if you fear the roads for what ever reason.

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    no, this is usual. it's called a sense of entitlement. Short of open carry ( which I cannot endorse) its a long battle to collectively change the attitudes of the car-dependent folks who see no other way. It's not easy,it's not fast. A mixture of comedy, art and bullheadedness is what generally is prescribed.

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    This reminds me of the time a passenger said something to me, OMG!!!
    If i could have that moment back! What is a chicken **** passenger doing running his mouth?
    It's like a bench player talking smack to someone on the opposing team, you aren't even in the game!! So STFU!!
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    I usually ignore people like that.

    But I will give kudos' to the passenger on one point. That they would admit to killing a cyclist if they were driving and that happened.

    Verbally, I would respond with one of three things:

    1. Parle vous Francais(Do you speak French)
    2. Habla Espanol(Do you speak Spanish)
    3. Sprechen zie Deutch(Do you speak German)

    They would probably give you a strange look and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBoogly View Post
    Hey. So I bought a bike not too (I got a cruiser on the 12th, but I exchanged it for a Trek 7.2 FX on Tuesday) long ago and I read some instructional material on how to safely ride in traffic and I decided to ride on the road with the cars on an errand to the bank earlier today. Everything was fine. I realized that I’m only really in danger when switching lanes, or going through intersections or making left turns and that his danger can be minimized by intelligent positioning and forethought. I’ve yet to, but I intend to take TS101.

    So everything was peachy until a passenger riding in a car ordered me onto the sidewalk. Ignored him and he pulled off into a side street and insulted me and I just kept riding, so he passed me but I caught up to him at the light. He was in the left turn lane and I was in the through lane. Here is my imperfect transcript of the conversation:

    Him: What the **** are you doing on the road, get on the sidewalk.

    Me: Florida law says bicycles are permitted on the road.

    Him: I don’t care what the law says, you’re in the middle of the road. If I hit you with this car, I could go to jail. Get out of the way.

    Me: Are you a police officer?

    Him: ******, I’m the one with a *** that could shoot you dead.

    I did not move into the sidewalk, I just broke eye contact and looked at the light while putting my foot on the pedal while keeping him in my peripheral vision and preparing to take off at a sprint in the event that a *** were produced.

    When the light changed at the urging of the driver, the passenger made a halfhearted apology. The driver never spoke the entire time and he just seemed to have this sort of bemused smile on his face as if he were amused by his passenger’s rage. I told him to have a nice day and took off on my way as they turned left.

    This is the sort of thing that makes me want to reconsider the whole biking in traffic thing. I’m not that scared of being in an accidental collision because I understand the flow of traffic and I’m just adapting smart driving from my car to my bicycle, but I fear that someone might intentionally hit me. When he passed me, he could have easily rammed me from behind and I would be toast.

    People in Miami Florida are just mean.

    What are your thoughts? Are there any established strategies for dealing with this kind of thing?
    TB,

    Just keep your cool, don’t lower yourself to their level. And do what you now to be both safe and legal.

    And of course don’t forget the ever popular, “Smile and wave,” just “smile and wave.” Or maybe cup your hand to your ear like you can’t hear them.

    The saddest thing though is how many people LEOs and motorists alike who are ignorant of the law.

    And as I am sure someone has already said, most of them are too cowardly to actually act on their threats.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclosaurus View Post
    When a cager is talking trash, it's a pretty good sign that's all they intend to do. Just smile, wave, and say "Si, si, gracias" until they give up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wanderer View Post
    Report him to the police, for threatening you with a ***.................. MHO

    That’s a big mistake on his part/
    Wanderer,

    That’s a very good point. He needs to be held accountable for his actions. The irony here though is that he might try that on the wrong person and find himself looking down the business end of an even larger g u n then he claims to have.
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    I know this is an old thread but I just got this idea - has anyone ever tried the "I'm an off duty cop" tactic on some ******nozzle harassing them?
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    If someone said they had such an impediement and could end my life, the LAST thing I would do is break eye contract. If the Cager actually produced or branished the object, the threat would sound more like assault requiring an appropriate response and depending upon one's viewpoint, you could dial 911. It does not sound like the loudmouth was a creating an imminent type situation justifying any sort of self defense or even responding maybe other than to say sorry and watching the guy like a hawk.

    I am more concerned with cars that run you off the road and then circle back a few times to repeat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RR3 View Post
    I am more concerned with cars that run you off the road and then circle back a few times to repeat.
    This is a real thing that happens. Happened to me once when a guy in what could only be described as a monster truck decided to do so after my response to him aggressively honking and following close (holding up rush hour traffic I might add) was to blow him a kiss and offer a friendly wave while lollygagging to and fro from fog line to curb in the bike lane. There, I'm done hijacking this ancient thread now.
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