What fluid did you end up getting? There's a good bit of information on suspension fluid here
http://pvdwiki.com/index.php?title=Suspension_Fluid. I recently went the moto shop route and got some Silkolene based on the info in that article, but still had to order it as they didn't stock what I wanted (went with the Pro RSF in 5 and 7.5 wt). Definitely less expensive than the Fox fluids, although I could have just purchased the Fox stuff at a nearby LBS on the first try. Just installed the enduro seal kit on my 32VanR and using the Silkolene fluids...out for the test run in a bit.