I have been pretty lucky myself. My last 30 day tour was planned around meeting my wife for days 14, 15 and 16. It worked out great. We got to see each other for 3 days in the middle of my tour. She spent the rest of the time getting to meet me and visiting other areas. the planning is a bit more complicated because I had to be in a certain spot on a certain day, but it worked out great.
Good luck