Thank you all for your kind notes. You have all made me feel a bit better. It has been very confusing for me. I have been lying in bed at night thinking,"Oh, please him be chosen for OTS , it's his dream." Then I'd think, "maybe he could get a job at a quiet engineering firm in Philly...no, that's so wrong to wish that", but protection of the cub is a strong force. But seeing his face when he got the call tells me it is for the best and I must HT-U!