ease up on the rubberneck.
it's very normal to want to see, part of the human impulse and in some ways a healthy impulse.
and you can't complain too much about a ticket. The cops, fire and emts have a job and need to secure their area. People wandering in to take a look get in the way and are a danger to themselves and others... (seen too many looking loo's smoking around a leaky car wreck or walking around live power lines etc...)
hope the ticket isn't too much though...