Originally Posted by
Cyclebum
Solo touring is inherently a selfish activity. I am rarely on tour for more than 3 weeks at a time, partially for that reason. Plus, I get homesick.
Consider breaking the x-country into 3 or 4 segments, interspersed with time at home. Anticipating, planning, staying in shape for the next segment is fun. When it's all done, it'll still be a cross country. You'll have 3/4 journals instead of just one.
The Amtrak idea should work too. Be win-win for you both.
Good luck.
This is my situation as well...seems that 3 weeks is the limit before my wife starts to worry.