I have small hands and I prefer the SRAM hoods. I rode Shimano before as well. I have yet to ride Campy.
I will be riding Di2 soon and I do like the hoods. That's the first thing I checked out when I got my gruppo.
The bikes weren't set up very well, and the FD shifting sucked.
It's a known SRAM weakness. A lot of people went with Ultegra/DA FDs with their SRAM gruppos. Why do you think they introduced "YAW" with the catcher?
If OPs going with the older Force ask the LBS for the new YAW FD. I believe SRAM22 Force has it. I'd wait for that as they overhauled its aesthetics
...although you may need some new wheels too
