Originally Posted by
Mumonkan
hindsight = 20/20
once its over its a lot easier to evaluate the reasons why things were the way they were, and at least in my case it meant that "the end" was really more of a beginning than anything
Good to hear. Do yourself a favor and make a mental, or physical, note about the things that you've discovered in hindsight. Start making a list of things you absolutely need from a relationship and a list of things you absolutely cannot have in a relationship. Use these lists to evaluate future relationships.