Hi @
Velocivixen,
I am assuming you are using quill (threaded)? If so, then I have had success with dirt drop stems and technomic stems. Nitto makes the prettiest and most expensive of either, but Kalloy and Origin8 make decent knock-offs. I prefer shorter reach, like 80mm but they also make 100mm extensions for both, I believe. You can find pics of both online to get a sense of the differences in style. If you are using threadless you have more options by using spacers and can find a variety of angles. Hope this helps.