Sounds to me like the OP's friend was the only person there with an ounce of common sense. We're in the 20th century USA, not the Samurai era in Japan where people fight to the death over minor insults.
Just out of curiosity, was your friend's wife or girl friend present on scene? If so, he gets bonus points.
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