i have a carbon calfee, a steel de rosa, and a brand-new alum colnago. theyre all just bikes. besides the fact that theyre built to a target different target (riding style), theres never been anyone whos built frames of different material with exact same geometric specification and similar stiffness or weight requirements to make a declarative statement.
plus im not sensitive or nuanced enough tell the difference between a 2000$ set of callaway vs taylormade clubs. if you are, good on ya.
arguing over this stuff is an exercise in futility