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Mr Pink57
Maybe I'm reading too much into it but you comment "s
he just seems to have this mental laziness that irritates me to no end", that sounds like some brewing dislike and unfortunately I've been on both ends of it. I'm not saying that can't be worked through but everyday that just becomes a heavier load to carry, eventually it will break you if someone doesn't start lightening the load. Good luck with it all but don't let love blind you and give up too much time to something either one of you aren't will to do whatever it takes make work.