I've tried a lot of stuff, every major fizik model, prologo, specialized power, romin and toupe, fabric scoop, and others, no dice. Right now I'm using a performance forte sweep and it's the most ok, but even then I don't totally love it. I love riding and kind of put up with the saddle stuff, but it's been almost 4 years and I haven't settled on something I love.
Fortunately my wife booked me a bike fit for my bday, which includes the gebiomized scan and hopefully I can quit with this trial and error stuff which I'm clearly failing at doing and hopefully get closer to maximizing my comfort. I imagine I could even revisit models I've tried if it turns out they were just flat out set up incorrectly.