I love to ride, my wife hates it! I love to work in the yard, she hates it! Yet, there are many things we enjoy doing togather. We have a wonderfull marrage and we are comfortable with each others likes and dislikes. We don't always understand each other but we are best friends and enjoy each others company.
Take the trip, enjoy yourself, have fun, come back refreshed and renewed!
One of my coworkers and I are planning a century trip soon and both our wives think we are bonkers!