Originally Posted by
Bike Jedi
"Thanks for this. This actually has been super helpful. You helped me to think about some other things I am not thinking about or considering, so this was more helpful than you know."
Why would it be a "good decision" if it's helping? Because it does not match a harmonic rhythm that meets the norm?
Wouldn't helping someone accomplish their own hopes, goals, or dreams, even if there is constructive criticism, be a good thing?
Or is social norm more important? I don't have normal social skills and don't do well in situations like that. Actually, I do if I fake it, but I would rather not fake it and just be me instead. Do you have some advice for me on what to do since I struggle with stuff like that so folks don't shut me down, and others rush in to support and encourage shutting folks down, verses just being honest, have communication, and allow people to learn their lessons us being different?
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Iggy list just got longer.