If your junk is going numb, it's not something that you get used to with miles/hours in the saddle and it's not something that you learn to live with. If you're at all fond of its various functionality, it's a problem that you address and make right sooner rather than later. If adjusting your current saddle doesn't do it, find another saddle that does by providing proper support to the sit bones and proper relief to the soft tissues.