Originally Posted by GhostRider62

I would run from any framebuilder who does not understand a very steep STA puts more weight into your torso and onto hands

Think of the opposite of a steep STA, say around 20 degrees. There is zero weight on the hands and your core is completely relaxed.

A rider your size probably needs 72-73 degree STA to achieve a balanced, comfortable position on a road bike. I doubt any seatpost and stem combo can get you into such a position.

I would write it off as a bad experience.