Ray - could it be that LOOK cleats wear out more when off the bike coz they stick out so much?
My shoes are SPDs and they've lasted me years. They're made by Gaerne and they're a kind of touring shoe - intended to allow a bit of walking, so the cleat is inset from the shoe treads and doesn't make direct contact with the ground.
Stew
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