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Originally Posted by substructure View Post
I understand, I'm being selfish here. I honestly do. That IS part of the problem.

I appreciate all your responses. The good and bad. I need this.

There's the other kind of selfish...the kind when you fulfill your self until your cup is overflowing, and share the runover with your loved ones.


Don't focus on her so much...don't depend on her for your welfare. Get a new lease on life, and she will get inspired by your spark (whether she is sick or well).


Hope things work out. As Stacey said...there is life after the death of a relationship!
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