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Originally Posted by substructure View Post
I understand, I'm being selfish here. I honestly do. That IS part of the problem.

I appreciate all your responses. The good and bad. I need this.
The only selfish act would be not trying to find out what is wrong. I think you are being too hard on yourself. Don't assume your own guilt, or as Serendipper put it very well: Don't overthink yourself into the wrong conversation. If you go in assuming the problem is one thing, then you're not really listening to her, just waiting for confirmation of your own thoughts. Be open-minded and loving. Good luck.
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