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Originally Posted by jsharr View Post
I have to disagree. There is a difference between having a giving servant heart and having no backbone. I do not think you have to abondon yourself to give selflessly.

I tried to clarify with my last post, but do you see what I mean? Women respond differently to men who are "needy".

Men with co-dependant tendencies need to be extremely careful not to fall into the " I live only to serve you" trap, which is a lie. He really wants her to take care of him.

Selfless acts begin with self-fullfullment. If your tank is empty, do I have to call a ride to pick you up so that you can come change my tire?

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