Originally Posted by
chico1st
...But why cant I just get a softer saddle instead...or just wear underwear for that matter.
softer saddle = more pain (cuts off the blood supply by bulging up into soft tissue - saddles are like shoes, try for size, try before you buy and take it back if there's any discomfort)
underwear = discomfort (it won't kill you or your chances to have children but it's really, really annoying)
here's a good thread on what to look for
http://www.bikeforums.net/showthread.php?p=6477761