I am using 254mm spokes on the disc side and 256mm on the other side. They are what my LBS told me to use.
I turned each spoke 1/4 turn more and then gave each disc side spoke an extra 3/4 turn.
The red spokes are all between 72 and 125Kfg. The light blue are 0-30. Same goes for the other side of the wheel. Not sure what final tension I should be shooting for with butted spokes.