The Slow Spokes group is a good group to get connected with. I'm definitely on the competitive end of riding, but have heard great things about the Slow Spokes group... riders of all abilities with a concentration on the recreational, noncompetitive (except friendly bragging rights) side of the sport. Also connect to trianglecycling.com for a local BB that lists rides and meetups several times a week. With the warmer weather here/just around the corner, regular weekly rides will start popping up and becoming more heavily attended.