Thanks everyone
I really appreciate everyone giving me their input. I was worried about staying with a bike that is not the correct size for me, but that feel really good for reach. I have put on the technomic stem I have and took it out for a spin. It gives me a very upright position that feels almost too good. I was surprised to hear my leg looks too straight because I normally ride with my legs more stretched out. Any way, I think all the advice about it being fine to ride a smaller bike if it fits better and provides a more comfortable ride is what I needed to hear. I've attached a couple more pics with the new stem on the bike (it's a long stem!).