yea, i'm looking to do more trail riding than anything, a little actual downhill/off the trail action, but not a ton. i was just looking through again, and the sizes are all over the place based on which company i choose. how much room do you want for the stand-over? that's one of my big concerns. i don't want to 'damage' anything, so based on the idea that i have a 35" inseam, do i want to go up to 31" SO?