I have been lurking here for a while mostly because I don't quite qualify to post in this forum yet.(one more year,then I qualify to post.)
Having said that I generally post on the commuting, utility, electric bike,winter cycling, general cyclling discussion, and living car free.(I am doing car lite). I did post once in foo.
I feel that for the most part bike forums as a whole has less flaming and disrespect than a lot of other forums/chat rooms that I have seen online.